The first step to Breaking Free from Your Financial Prison is admitting that it is your prison. You have to take full responsibility for the actions you took to get into your situation. Making this realization will then create a path for giving you the power to get out of your situation. It might be a hard thing to admit, but the moment you can admit you got yourself into the financial prison, is the same moment you can decide to get out.
When you place blame on your abuser for 'getting you into' the situation you are in, you are then saying that they are the only one that can get you out.
TAKE BACK YOUR CONTROL AND YOUR POWER.
Just like all abuse; mental, emotional, physical, sexual, financial abuse varies from situation to situation, it might be subtle tactics like manipulation or it could be more overt, demanding and intimidating.  The GOAL of the abuser is always the same, to gain power and control in the relationship using money. 

Their only goal is complete control.

I can still hear his words, 'Whoever makes all the money makes all the rules.' or 'Whoever has all the money has all the power.'
This was the verbiage that my abusive ex would say to me, to remind me of how our home ran. Before I knew it I was 10 years in, broke and dependent completely on him for financial support. He constantly rubbed it in my face and made it clear to everyone around us that he made all the money, had all the money and that I should be forever grateful for his contribution to my livelyhood, because apparently he thought I was incapable of carrying for myself. And the worst part?  I believed him. He would use phrases like, 'I saved you.', 'You were nothing before I met you.', 'You had nothing, you've never had anything.'.  Constantly reminding me of how fortunate I should be that he brought me in from the ghetto to live with him.  What was even crazier, is I didn't even realize I was living in the ghetto, so it was great that he enlightened me with that information. I didn't realize what was happening until one too many breakdowns in the bathroom, one too many thoughts of suicide, when I finally googled, 'Why is my boyfriend a bully?' and 'Why does my boyfriend hate me?'  I still remember that day, I was in the bathroom crying my eyes out... in the dark.  I couldn't believe I was googling such a thing, is this really what my life had become?  I had already wasted 10 years of my life. That is when I figured it out, that is when I started to really educate myself, on the type of man I had decided to give all my power to. 
It took me 10 years to realize I was being mentally, emotionally and financially abused by a narcissist.
What is a narcissist: A mental disorder which a person has an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for attention and admiration. They have a complete lack of empathy for others. They are generally unhappy and disappointed with life.  Their relationships with people are unfulfilling and most do not enjoy being around them for long periods of time. 
Definition of financial abuse: the controlling of a victim's ability to acquire, use and maintain financial resources.
Definition of mental and emotional abuse:Involves a person's attempt to frighten, control, or isolate you. They constantly humiliate, criticize, control, shame, accuse, blame and deny bad behavior by deflection or changing the subject. 

Can you relate?

You are not the only one.  I use to think I was such an idiot for getting myself in this situation.  I remember thinking, 'It's not like I walked into his life and on day 3 he said, give me your job, income, phone, car, bills and erase yourself from your network.'  No.  He did it slowly, I saw it happening, and he was mentally and emotionally abusing me while he did it.  I sat there and watched all my freedoms get taken from me one by one. But listen, 20% of women are living this way... with a spouse, whether married or dating that they no longer love or that abuses them, because they can not afford to live on their own.  Their finances are so far depleted that they are enduring a life of emptiness, abuse and hopelessness.

It's about empowerment.

It's not about being rich, it's about empowerment. It's about needing money to live the life you want. It's about setting goals and achieving those goals. It's about being self-aware of what you really want out of life. It's nothing to be ashamed of, no matter what you have been told. You deserve to have your own money, and you have the right to make your own decisions regarding that money.

It's about educating yourself.

Find your inner strength.

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breaking free from your financial prison with Sabrina Victoria

human better 365

human better 365

breaking free from your financial prison with Sabrina Victoria

human better 365

human better 365

breaking free from your financial prison with Sabrina Victoria

human better 365

human better 365

breaking free from your financial prison with Sabrina Victoria

human better 365

human better 365

breaking free from your financial prison with Sabrina Victoria

human better 365

human better 365

breaking free from your financial prison with Sabrina Victoria

human better 365

human better 365

breaking free from your financial prison with Sabrina Victoria

human better 365

human better 365

breaking free from your financial prison with Sabrina Victoria

human better365

human better365

breaking free from your financial prison with Sabrina Victoria

human better 365

human better 365

breaking free from your financial prison with Sabrina Victoria

human better 365

human better 365

breaking free from your financial prison with Sabrina Victoria

human better 365

human better 365

breaking free from your financial prison with Sabrina Victoria

human better 365

human better 365

breaking free from your financial prison with Sabrina Victoria

human better 365

human better 365

breaking free from your financial prison with Sabrina Victoria

human better 365

human better 365

breaking free from your financial prison with Sabrina Victoria

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